• June 21, 2022

5 great tips to do before sex that will make your partner comfortable while having sex

The word sex when mentioned has a lot of influence on the mind and how people think. Some people hearing the word will get excited or it could have an adverse effect causing them fear and disgust. Commonly this is because most have never had sexual intercourse in their lives. Just the thought of sleeping with someone of the opposite sex can make a person shiver, while the sex maniac is likely to feel a tingle down the spine.

The number of men and women who have never had sexual intercourse is surprisingly high. The reasons for this may be by choice, fear, or whatever else most obstacles are overcome with professional help. Talking to the right person will help you regain your confidence if it was affected in the past due to a bad experience, or if something else is keeping you from doing what you want to do (have sex) but can’t, then book an appointment to see a doctor or a sexual orientation counselor.

Remember that you are the boss and therefore you should never do something you are not comfortable with as this can cause problems. Making love (sexual intercourse) is a beautiful thing with the right person, and even more beautiful if it is started correctly.


1. Sex is always going to be a pleasurable experience with someone you love. However, if it’s your first time and you’re having sex with someone you don’t know too well, get to know them, as it will make the experience that much more fun. Ask about their likes and dislikes. The more you know about how to please this person, the more likely her actions will be seen as successful rather than failure. Sex with someone you don’t really know, have a condom on standby.

two. Before you have sex and there is fear inside, take things slow and make sure your partner understands your feelings. A good understanding between both people will allow you to handle the situation more easily. Bide your time, as fear can take a long time to overcome. If the first attempt at sex doesn’t go as planned, talk about where it went wrong to help fix things for when you try again.

3. This is an intimate moment, so don’t rush like a bull in a china shop. Gently hold your partner and kiss her. Kisses must last. Let the lips wander down to the neck and earlobe and anywhere else after that. If at any point you feel apprehensive about continuing, stop and breathe in and out until you regain control.

Four. Caressing the body is important. Every touch or blow has to be significant. Feel your partner’s body while he is dressed, slowly removing one garment at a time until he is naked. If full nudity embarrasses you, tell your partner. Over time, it will get easier, allowing you to accept that revealing the flesh is actually a turn-on for most people. If you are the giver in a relationship and intend to use language, ask if it is okay, as it is not to everyone’s liking.

5. When stripping becomes a habit for you and you are happy that your partner can freely explore your body with his hands and tongue without worrying about spoiling the moment.

If this is your first sexual encounter with a man and you stand in front of him naked, chances are he already has an erection. A stiff and hard penis is a sign of arousal. This is good because now you know that what your man sees pleases him very much and that’s before the best part, where you can please him more by doing that beautiful thing called sex.

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