How to avoid being just an affair with him? 7 ways to make him take you seriously
There are many sad and disappointed women today who have found themselves discarded like an old shoe! If you want to avoid being taken advantage of and only have an affair with the man you love, make sure you do the right thing so that he takes you seriously. Here are some awesome ways to get him serious about you.
Don’t be too friendly with him.
If you become too friendly, friendly, and familiar with him too early in the relationship, you are bound to force yourself and your charms on him. He will definitely think that you will always be there to take you and therefore he will stop having any real feelings for you. He will see you as someone he can just have a good time with without committing.
Don’t let him put his stamp of authority on you
Don’t let him intimidate you in any way. If you allow him to rule your life in every way, he will surely take you for granted and there will be nothing to stop him from discarding you when he has had enough of you. Let him know that he needs to be respected and have his own opinion from the start.
Don’t settle for second best
For fear of being alone or ignored, a woman may settle for second best. This can lead to the guy treating her badly or even leaving her when she’s had enough! If you don’t want to be a fling or a fling for him, make sure he gets to know the kind of person you are and make him fall deeply in love with you.
Don’t let him get away with it too often.
If you let him get away with it too often, he’s likely to be coddled and pampered. This will make him selfish and he will start treating you badly. If you put your foot down and make him realize that you are not going to stand being treated like an affair, he will be forced to acknowledge your feelings.
Make him fall in love with your character.
The more he falls in love with you, the more serious he will be with you. Only when he’s not really in love with you and your character can he behave in a way that shows he’s just playing you. Once he loves you deeply, he will never treat you as an affair.
Prove yourself before him in every way.
A man needs to see for himself if you are worth his love and commitment. Unless he is really convinced and sure of your character, qualities and traits, only then will he be able to think of you as someone he can be serious about. As long as he doesn’t have proof of your admirable traits, it will be hard for him to take you seriously.
Make sure you earn their respect.
Do things that show you are honest and trustworthy. These qualities will help you earn their respect. Once he respects you, he can never treat you as a fling or a “passing fancy.” He will never be satisfied with having a casual relationship with you. He will want something else.
