My boyfriend doesn’t call me every day: ways to make him call you more
“My boyfriend doesn’t call me every day, what does it mean?” That’s one of those age-old dating questions that women continue to ask themselves. Women and men approach dating from very different places. When a woman is crazy about her boyfriend, all she wants to do is talk to him. She will reach out to him at every opportunity. Unfortunately, most men are not connected in this way. Just because you’d love to talk to him every day doesn’t necessarily mean he feels the same way. If you want him to call you more often than he does, that’s doable. The key to achieving this is found in the frequency with which you call it.
If your boyfriend doesn’t call every day and you’d like him to, there’s one thing you need to do. You have to stop calling him as much as you have been doing. Women are notorious for being the ones who do most of the communication. If your boyfriend says he’ll call and then doesn’t, there’s a good chance that within hours of him not calling you’ll call him. We do this because we not only want to connect with the man we adore, but we want to make sure he doesn’t lose interest or ignore us. Contrary to what it seems, when a man doesn’t call as promised, it’s usually not because he’s ignoring you or because he’s putting you at the bottom of his priority list. Actually, it’s more than likely because he knows you’ll be calling him soon.
Men sometimes become complacent about certain aspects of their relationships. If he knows you’re hooked on him, he sees no reason to keep trying to impress you. If you remember the early days of your relationship, he probably called you the most. That’s because he was on your trail. He wanted you and knew he had to work to get you. Now that he’s got you, the dynamics have changed. If you stop calling him, force his hand. He will have no choice but to start calling you again. Every time a woman backs off a bit, a man will notice. So he takes the step of calling less if your goal is for him to call more.
