• June 23, 2022

Why would a guy avoid you if he likes you? 5 things you should know

You’ve watched actions of this particular guy for weeks. His looks, the way he behaves around you, the things he says are all indicators that he really likes you. But suddenly, you see his demeanor change. He starts avoiding you! This article shares 5 things you should know about Why would a guy avoid you if he likes you?so you can get and keep a worthy man who loves you for life!

#1 You Should Know: Some men just can’t stand to lose control of their emotions.

Loving someone is irresistible. When a guy likes a girl and is attracted to her, he starts behaving irrationally and sometimes he can’t control what he thinks and feels. Some guys hate losing control of their emotions. And because being in control of his emotions is much more important to him than liking a girl, that guy will do what he can to keep his emotions in check. He will avoid the girl he likes in order to maintain control, because that is what keeps him comfortable in his life. It is his way of facing life.

If the guy you like is like that, I urge you to leave him alone. Leave it to his preferences. It will take a lot of effort to help him see that it is safe for him to open his heart and lose control of love.

#2 To Know: Even if he agrees to be in a relationship with you, he may still resent you for being the source of his discomfort.

It sounds crazy, but the human mind can’t help but behave irrationally until someone makes the decision to change and do something about it. Still, it takes a lot of motivation and determination for a person to change. Change can be difficult.

While some say that love conquers all, is it really worth all the heartache and drama? Leave the drama to the TV shows and movies. Don’t waste your precious time and energy chasing after a guy who doesn’t want to change from within. You deserve to be chased and smitten by a guy who can’t help but want to see you every day!

#3 Must Know: A guy won’t avoid a girl he REALLY likes.

If a guy really likes you, he will make it happen! He will put in superhuman time, effort, and creativity to chase you down and make you his girlfriend!

Very often, the guy you meet at work, at school, or at social events, is competitively attracted to A LOT of girls. It’s not just you. Don’t be surprised if he likes your best friend too! Therefore, if a guy avoids you even though he likes you, it is very possible that he is already actively pursuing the girl he met yesterday, because he can’t wait to make her his girlfriend!

But these are things he’s not going to tell you. Even his closest friend may not know that he is actively pursuing a girl right now!

#4 You should know: Guys tend to keep their love lives private.

Guys often delay announcing their intentions to pursue a girl until they are successful. This way, he saves himself the double humiliation of being rejected and mocked by his friends for failing!

So if a guy avoids you when you THINK he likes you, he may already be serious with another girl you haven’t met yet. Instinctively, he knows that being attracted to you will jeopardize his plans to be with the girl of his dreams. So he avoids you to keep his master plan intact!

#5 Must Know: It sounds romantic that a boy is so attracted to you that he avoids you. But it really isn’t!

Stop falling for this guy who avoids you. Take a look at the other guys around you who are doing their best to impress you. It’s the guys who take the time to help you and lend you their ears that deserve a chance! Appreciate them for being an important part of your life. Honestly, why wouldn’t you give a funny, sweet, caring guy a chance? Do you realize that no man NEEDS to spend his time with you? They can also avoid you like this guy has… So appreciate what you have!

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