• July 13, 2023

10 basic rules of dirty talk

10 quick and easy steps to help you start talking dirty today:

  1. Pick a role. Simple role. The most cliché is teacher – student, but it is the easiest to start with. The second most used is sugar daddy and girland the third is naughty girl and bad boy. Don’t tell him anything, just pick one. My favorite is Teacher Student, because it is the EASIEST to do.
  2. slow start. Drop some clues about talking dirty like “I’m going to give you homework tonight, you better be a good girl and do it” gold “Your sugar daddy is going to pamper his daughter tonight” and “Sometimes you are such a naughty girl that you need a boy to spank you.” First, she will play along, almost EVERY girl likes the fantasy of role-playing. Probably, at this moment, she is thinking “Oh this is going to be fun”. Go ahead and text your girl one of those lines, right now. Watch what she replies.
  3. Add a little spice. If you’re having a text conversation on the phone or a late-night conversation, keep it up, especially if she’s playing along: “Did you finish your homework like a good student? Or do I need to punish you a bit?” gold “Are you going to dress up for your dad, to impress him tonight, something sexy the way he likes it, or does he need me to tell you what to wear for him?” and “I think you’ve been VERY bad tonight and you deserve a spanking.” If they responded favorably to you in step 2, this is a piece of cake. If you are in the same room, say “Why don’t you come here? Good girl”
  4. Reinforce the positive aspects. Tell her she’s a good girl. Tell him you like how obedient he is. Tell him that it turns you on when he listens to you. Don’t ask “YES/NO” questions when you intend to do something.“I bet you’ve been so bad you need to be spanked, huh?”
  5. The intonation is important! Don’t laugh at yourself or at her. You have to keep it on a playful and serious note. If she is hesitant to follow you or she is shy to reply, she comments how cute it is that she is shy, tell her she is hot, but don’t break character. when you say things say them like you are pretending or playing a game. You say it with the same intonation as if you were flirting but you make it sound slower and deeper. Don’t try to sound sexy. In fact, imagine yourself in “pretend land” and you are the actor of the role you assumed in Step 1
  6. Add more flair to the chat. If you’re together, touch her. Don’t do this when other people are around, especially your friends. This is for YOU AND HER. So add some flair, no one’s looking (yet). Touch her, but not on her tits. If she’s a bad student, pat her ass, if she’s a very bad student, bend her to your knees. If it’s Sugar Baby, have her sit on your lap and trace her body with your fingers. Talk to her AS IF YOU ARE who you pretend to be. She will follow your example. If she’s a bad girl, spank her harder.
  7. Don’t rush. Role playing is about playing, not rushing to the “bottom line” which is cumming. You want to spend three times more on the pretext than on the sex.
  8. Speak to their emotions instead of their logic.. Don’t explain to him what you’re doing. Bad: “I’m going to be a teacher and you’re going to be a naughty student” DO NOT do that. Assume! Suppose he is a teacher. He doesn’t start off abruptly, but she gently leads her to the paper, telling him “You’re such a bad girl, if I were your teacher I’d give you a diversion…unless of course we can figure something out… ;)”
  9. Stay in character until you get to sex. Don’t rush, like I told you, but keep up. You want to be sexual but not have sex. You should be talking dirty to her in the subtext you assumed in step 1, but you should be closer to sex. If she comes down to give you a blow job, she’s doing it for “get an A on your project” gold “that’s what daddy wants his sugar baby to do to please him” and if she’s a bad girl, “She needs to show what a bad girl she is to a bad boy.”
  10. Compliment!!! Tell him, especially after you’ve fucked, how amazing it was. Tell him how much you liked talking dirty to him. She enjoyed it as much or more than you. Tell him you want to do it again THIS WILL ALSO OPEN A DOOR OF FLOOD OF IDEAS!

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