How to Read Women’s Flirting Body Language
Being able to read a woman’s body language can be a great skill if you have established a good understanding of female attraction. It has been said that up to 90% of communication between men and women is non-verbal.
If you can develop the ability to quickly identify between flirty body language and a woman showing disinterest, you can have a huge advantage when it comes to knowing which girls to approach and which ones to waste your time on. Although body language itself is not a universal truth for all women in the world, it is a very good way to read a woman regardless of what she is saying. As the saying goes… “the body never lies”.
Below are some of the top female body language signs of attraction…
she does a double take
Let’s say you’re shopping at a grocery store, you’re grabbing some bananas from the stand, and on the other side a cute girl briefly makes eye contact with you. If she looks away and then she meets your eyes a few seconds later, that’s a good sign. At least you’ve peaked her interest, so she’s looking again. Possibly hoping to get your attention again. If she looks back and smiles (you know, one of those kind of smiles), or she looks back and seems to be looking you up and down; my advice would be to talk to her, immediately.
she preens herself
If a woman takes a few seconds to try to improve her appearance when she sees you, it’s a good sign that she’s interested, or at least finds you attractive and wants you to notice her. Some of the things she should look for are: fixing her hair, readjusting her necklace or bracelet, checking her appearance in a mirror if one is nearby, adjusting her clothes (possibly showing more cleavage). Although doing one of these might not mean much, catching her doing a few of these while getting your attention from time to time could be a sign of female body language attraction.
she maintains eye contact
Eye contact is great. It should be noted that most girls don’t make eye contact with most guys they don’t know, and if they do, it will only be for a second or two at the most. If you find a girl who holds eye contact with you longer or does a double take as mentioned above, then you should definitely consider talking to her. Also, having the confidence in yourself to maintain eye contact with a woman you find attractive can be very arousing for her. Always make her look away first, this is a subtle way to show your dominance as a man. This can be very powerful. If she has a “gleam” in her eye and she’s still smiling too, you should definitely make your move. In my opinion, this alone is probably the strongest sign of flirting body language and you shouldn’t hesitate to approach her.
She mirrors your body language
If you are having a conversation with a woman and notice that her body language is beginning to mirror yours, this is generally taken as the beginning of developing a relationship with a woman. She is following your example in some way and starting to feel more comfortable and interested in you. Check this at any time during a conversation. Is the way she sits or stands the same as you? When you take a drink does she do the same? There is no need to become overly conscious about it, just notice it. If she’s starting to mirror you, that’s a good sign you may have caught one.
She touches you (a lot)
A girl touching you is almost always a positive sign, unless she’s slapping you after some rude comment you’ve made. Other than that, like eye contact, most women don’t touch men they don’t know. The fact that she is touching, prodding, brushing or putting her hand on you is a pretty obvious sign that she is at least comfortable with you. The more sensual her touch is, the more “interested” she is in you. Touching you is a pretty sure sign of flirty body language, especially if you’ve just met her. But where she touches you is an even bigger sign. If she starts touching your chest, stomach, or (especially) your thighs, you have a girl who is very into you. Take this as a sign and make a move.
As stated at the beginning, female body language signs of attraction can be a nifty way to figure out what a woman is really saying. Reading her body language along with a deeper understanding of female attraction in general can get you much further with women than most men discover.
