Patience, Understanding, Tolerance, Discipline, Thought, Control (PUTDTC)
We must all live with full tact, conscience and work/play ethic, with work first and play second. I understand that there are many factors that we must live with in order to be successful at anything. Without good tact, good conscience and good ethics, the other factors are nothing even if they are fully present. In fact, every successful life is a patiently developed effort, not a wild game that is random like a dollar lottery ticket that loses when bought on a whim without even an ounce of genuine intuition.
Here is the value of tactful cooperation on all levels: Imagine a car that loses a wheel. Will that wagon move as well as it did before the wheel was lost, even if the other three wheels keep it moving? That’s my point right there. I’ll make it more clear: for things or reality to work completely well, all the points and mechanisms have to work well, completely and on point.
Therefore, complete patience, understanding, tolerance, discipline, thought and control are needed for life and existence to function fully well. It is a life technique, and everything else that works to make life a winning exercise and genuinely forever.
So, set your goal and apply this reality to it. Without that reality, all goals are just wishes, not goals, and wishes are a “shot in the dark,” not a complete process. The big difference between a definite goal and a random desire is the definite attitude towards it. Whatever the details are in those differences, it is the attitude of strength, perseverance and not giving up or being weak and consigning your desire to a desire that makes the difference. Desires invite permanent contemptuous failure, definite desires that are truly desired guarantee ultimate success by simply discarding what doesn’t work and keeping what works rather than dismissing what doesn’t work as permanent failure and giving up.
Live in reality and you will be rewarded if you do well. You want things and you stop living in reality and the sorrows are obviously horrible. It all comes down to attitude all the way. A person cannot say “so what”, genuinely shirk the effort, close his eyes and wish for good results and automatically get them without even reaching the goal himself. If it is right in front of you, you have to make an effort to achieve the objective, even if it is “easy and close”. If it’s a harder effort, you have to work and push yourself even harder. A bad reality is unfulfilled wishes. A good reality is the effort accomplished in the last instance. realistically.
