My boyfriend doesn’t call me often: why men do this and how to change it
My boyfriend doesn’t call me often. If you are a woman who says this, chances are you feel rejected by the man you adore. Although many men do not place as much importance on phone calls as women, it is still a very important part of the dating dynamic. You want me to call you because it helps you feel loved, adored, and appreciated. When he doesn’t call, he leaves you feeling neglected and insecure about his true feelings for you. The key to getting a man to call more is to understand why he doesn’t. Once you have that knowledge, you can change the entire dynamic of your relationship so that your boyfriend calls you as much or more often than you call him.
When you’re dating a guy and he doesn’t call you, the main thing you’re thinking about at that moment is how you’re going to react when you talk to him. There is a fine line between disappointment and anger in a situation like this. If you wait hours past the promised call time from him and then call him when you’re in a frustrated mood, he’ll figure it out. He may tell you that you are overreacting, or he may just decide that he doesn’t want to talk to you right now. Very often, the real reason men don’t call is because they simply forget to. Getting mad at a man for this is not going to accomplish anything. He will silently think that you are putting too much emphasis on a phone call and also, he will realize that your life revolves around him and hearing from him. You don’t want any man to come to that conclusion about you.
So what’s the best thing to do if your boyfriend isn’t calling you as often as you’d like? Stop calling him completely. He knows that you will make the call and he knows that he doesn’t have to. If you stop assuming the role of his caller in the relationship, he will have no choice but to start calling you. Sounds like very simple advice. It works, but the challenge is to follow it. Most women don’t have the willpower to do it, but if you can stop calling, you’ll know he’ll start calling before you know it.
