Review of the book “My journey with Maya”
Maya Angelou has passed away, but her memory lives on through those who knew her and share their stories. Tavis Smiley met Maya in 1986 at the age of 21. Because of her work, she was asked to deliver a letter from the mayor. That chance meeting led to 28 years of mentoring.
Maya allowed Tavis to ask tough questions and challenged him to think deeper. Somehow, she was always right, but she was graceful in her responses and left space to let things slide.
The only problem he would never back down on was the use of the “n” word and profanity. She was able to impart how our choice of words affects the way we are viewed and the impact it can have on our future.
Tavis’ journey began with an invitation from one of Maya’s friends to join them on a trip to Africa and they provided the resources to make it happen. That trip changed her life.
Maya followed his career and lovingly encouraged it for nearly thirty years. When she disagreed or thought something could be done differently, they had an intelligent debate. Sometimes, it was after a period of time passed that she would remember something she said and contemplate how she might grow from it.
He shared stories of other well-known people who had crossed his path. She never judged others, but she was able to make them better people just by talking to them. She also listened before speaking. When she spoke, she caught her attention.
I was so inspired by the stories Tavis shared that I wish I could be like her. However, she told me that she was the best “me” that she could be. She really built people up no matter what path they took.
Although Maya was a hero to African citizens and African Americans, her wisdom is such that we can all aspire to reflect. There are probably treasures of her like her in every cultural group. I would like to see more of this type of mentoring crossing all boundaries. Kindness and wisdom unite race, religion, education, or financial stations.
The wise person will grow from their mistakes, correct them, allow others to see a difference in them, and develop others to be the best they can be. I am not known in the world and I have never traveled abroad. I hope I’ve made a difference for someone and when I get to heaven I’ll be able to meet people I didn’t even know share stories of how we intertwine.
This was a good read. I finished it just in time for sweet dreams. Have a wounded night.
