The Male Chastity Cuckold: Is It The Right Choice For You?
For many women, turning their man into a male chastity cuckold, literally taking another lover out of the main relationship and having him fulfill their sexual needs, bridges the gap between their previous sex life and their new role as key to their man. .
The reason she does this is that her man is locked in chastity and even if he is allowed to have penetrative sex with her, he is not allowed to orgasm.
And as I’ve written before, although most people write about lifestyle from a man’s point of view and say how difficult it is for to theTo my way of thinking and in my experience, women share the burden equally.
Not only do you have to consider your man’s needs within the context of lifestyle, but you also miss out on a lot of what you previously took for granted.
And speaking as a woman, there is no substitute for making love to a man. properly and bring it, if you’ll pardon the pun, to its natural conclusion.
Making your man a male chastity cuckold can solve this problem.
Yet despite the hot fantasy (and it is a hot fantasy, that’s for sure) the reality is more prosaic and potentially more problematic.
The problem is that it’s hard for us to think about fantasy without engaging our emotions, and doing so tends to blind us to the possible logical consequences of our actions. And once you’ve had sex with another man outside of your primary relationship, you can’t ado that action, regardless of the effect it has on your man.
And believe me, reality is often very, very different from fantasy.
The male chastity cuckold’s fantasy is that he is somehow “involved”; but the reality is that often it is not. Even if he is present (which he often isn’t, and in any case it’s not a guarantee of a smooth experience), once the passion and desire rise, you’ll be focused on your lover, not your true partner.
And while he might be able to handle this… maybe not.
If he can’t, then you’ve just unleashed hell on your relationship. There is no going back: jealousy, anger, recriminations… they can all conspire to destroy your relationship even if prior to the event in which you were convinced – both truly convinced – everything would be fine.
Aside from the potential emotional turmoil, there are other, more practical considerations if you decide to turn your man into a male chastity cuckold:
- illness. Yes, I know, you’ve heard it all before. And as unlikely as it is to happen to yourit’s it does happen. It is a risk you are taking and you must be prepared to accept the consequences if the worst were to happen. And remember, some STDs are fatal (and could be for both of you). You are as sure as the last couple of your new lover and her honesty!
- The pregnancy. This also happens. How will it affect her life and her relationship with her husband if she becomes pregnant by another man? What will she be like? your feel? What would you do? Have the baby? Have an abortion? None of these is without its own practical and emotional consequences. Be warned: your male chastity cuckold might not exactly be thrilled that you have another man’s child in your life.
- The emotions of your new lover. No matter the effect on you and your husband…how will you handle it if your new lover falls head over heels for you? And if you fall in love with him? Things can get very ugly quickly and easily.
It is important to understand that I am not making any moral proscription here: it is No the same as a simple infidelity or having an affair because your husband not only knows about it, but often in favor of that, too.
No, I’m simply suggesting that you view it dispassionately in the cold light of day and really think about the possible consequences before you do something rash and then regret it.
In my marriage, I’m lucky that I don’t want to make John a male chastity cuckold.
Not only does it satisfy me intellectually, physically, and emotionally, but I know myself well enough to know that I can’t make love to a man without having an emotional connection to him, and that’s not the kind of trouble I want to invite. my marriage.
It’s an easy decision for me to make because no one could measure up to the man I’m married to, and the fact that he doesn’t orgasm with me when we make love as often as I’d like him to is a bit of a problem. . price to pay considering the other benefits of the lifestyle I enjoy.
However, I also know that the concept of having your husband as a male chastity cuckold is exciting and very, very sexy.
just remember there are potential problems with it; Also, do not trust what you read about it in forums and blogs. These posts do No It accurately reflects reality, and in any case, other people’s experience does not replace the knowledge of your own mind.
In short, what works for them might not work for you, and it’s better to think about this clearly and honestly ahead of time rather than rush into something that turns out to be disastrous.
