Why does my ex want to see me? Chances are your ex is trying to win you back, so he’s reading this!
Your ex keeps contacting you and sending you messages. Your ex just won’t leave you alone, and now he wants to see you! Obviously, you’re not sure why your ex is bothering you or why he would want to see you again, which suggests that you still think about your ex and may want to as well. But of course, there are a lot of things that get in the way of that, because your ex could have been the one who broke up with you, and your history together could have been bleak and painful.
BUT, since you’re here, you obviously want to know what your ex is looking for, and you’ll probably be surprised. Chances are your ex is trying to win you back, and here’s proof:
• An ex who contacts you is an ex who still loves you– No one will make an effort to contact an ex, unless they want that person back. If your ex got over you and if your ex moved on; they would not bother to contact you again. Not only this, but your ex wants to SEE YOU, which clearly means he misses you.
• Your ex doesn’t know how to win you back – Let’s be honest here, your ex is not too bright in the relationship department, because he could have spent the last few weeks trying to contact you endlessly. Now they don’t realize how annoying and damaging that can be, because all they want to do is win you back, and they feel like they can’t do that unless they talk to you. Therefore, your ex is simply trying to win you back, but he doesn’t know how to do it.
• Your ex misses being intimate with you – This is where you can be a little offended, because an ex can become sensitive or sentimental if you meet him in real life, because for him you remain the same person as you were before the breakup. What this means is that your ex still sees you in the same intimate and close way as he did before the breakup, because he was never over you in the first place.
• Your ex wants to fix things and start over – Sometimes an ex may feel that meeting in person is a good way to start over, because when they talk on the phone or via email, arguments can break out or fingers can be pointed at each other. Whereas in real life, both of you can be calmer and can talk things through more effectively. Maybe your ex is looking for a chance to redeem himself and wants to apologize and show that he’s changed in real life, something you haven’t given him a chance to do otherwise via phone or email.
