Your Boyfriend Is A Gamer: How To Get Him To Commit To You Only
If your boyfriend is a gamer, you may think that there is nothing you can do to make him commit to only you. You may be wrong about that. Granted, some men just aren’t interested in a one-on-one matchup, but many are. One of the reasons your boyfriend is still able to talk, date, and enjoy time with other women is because you’re turning a blind eye. If your boyfriend’s behavior is hurting you or making you question whether or not you need him in your life, there are things you can do right now that will make him take you and the relationship more seriously.
When your boyfriend is a player and you are aware of it, how you carry yourself tells him a lot about your own self-esteem. If you’re out with your boyfriend and you see him making eye contact with other attractive women, there’s something you need to do at that time. Tell her. Say something nice about her. Some good examples are “wow, look how cute that woman is over there” or “I love the color of her dress.” If you do this, you instantly defuse the situation in a couple of different ways. When you point it out, it becomes less interesting to him. Part of the fun of flirting with you is that he thinks you don’t notice. The other benefit of complimenting her is that she makes you look incredibly confident.
You also need to play a bit harder to get it. Many women overcompensate when they are with men who do not commit by being constantly available to them. If your boyfriend is a gamer, you should engage in a little “monkey see, monkey do” behavior. This doesn’t mean you should go out with a different man every night, but it should give the illusion that you have other options. Don’t answer every time your boyfriend calls you and disappear for a few hours now and then. Once your boyfriend realizes that you’re not just sitting there waiting for him to give you some attention, she’ll be busy impressing you all over again. The old adage of giving someone a taste of their own medicine works amazingly well in this case.
